Honoring Grief During National Social Work & Women’s History Month
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In a time dedicated to recognizing both the impact of social workers and the contributions of women, Herdyne Mercier, LCSW, stands at the intersection of both. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Grief Coach, author, and founder of L.I.V.E., she has built a platform centered on healing, purpose, and emotional freedom. Through her work, she challenges traditional narratives around grief and empowers individuals to see it not as an ending, but as a transformative beginning.
What inspired you to pursue a career as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and grief specialist?
Mercier: At just seven years old, I became deeply curious about death after attending a funeral. I remember hearing a pastor ask if we understood that we would all one day die, and it sparked so many questions in me-who, what, when, where, and how. I was fascinated, even as a child. I would insist on attending funerals because I felt like they taught you something about how to live. That curiosity eventually grew into a calling of helping people navigate grief and emotional pain. Supporting those experiencing grief is truly my life’s assignment.
Was there a defining moment that led you to focus on grief and emotional healing?
Mercier: Yes. I realized that every living being will experience grief at some point. Life is not perfect, but there is a requirement to live. Grief is not a punishment. Grief is proof that you loved deeply and cared fully. It reflects the meaningful connections we’ve had. Even though it feels overwhelming, it won’t break you.
What misconceptions about grief do you work to challenge?
Mercier: One of the biggest misconceptions is that grief has a timeline. People try to rush it or control it, but grief cannot be policed. It must be honored. Whether it shows up at work or in a grocery store, you have to allow it space. Ignoring it only delays healing.
What message do you hope audiences walk away with?
Mercier: Grief will come into your life. When it does, I want people to feel equipped to face it with grace, compassion, and love—and to know they can survive it.
What legacy do you hope to leave through your work?
Mercier: That grief is not the enemy; it is a companion in our human experience. When processed with care and healthy tools, it can guide us toward healing and deeper understanding.
How can readers connect online?
Mercier: https://www.instagram.com/herdynemercier?igsh=N3pzYmthMGR0NjFr
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