More Than Just Mother’s Day:
When most people think about Mother’s Day, they picture flowers, cards, and maybe breakfast in bed. But for some of us teens, it means a lot more than just a one-day celebration. It’s a chance to pause and really think about everything our moms, and the strong women in our lives, do for us, even the things we don’t always notice. Being a teen isn’t always easy, especially as a young male of color trying to figure out life, identity, and expectations all at once. And truthfully, having a parent or guardian isn’t always easy either. There are disagreements, rules we don’t like, and moments when it feels like no adult truly understands us. But at the same time, they’re often the ones checking on us, supporting us, and pushing us to become better versions of ourselves, even when we don’t realize it or appreciate it in the moment. The post More Than Just Mother’s Day: appeared first on The Westside Gazette.
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A Teen’s Perspective
When most people think about Mother’s Day, they picture flowers, cards, and maybe breakfast in bed. But for some of us teens, it means a lot more than just a one-day celebration. It’s a chance to pause and really think about everything our moms, and the strong women in our lives, do for us, even the things we don’t always notice. Being a teen isn’t always easy, especially as a young male of color trying to figure out life, identity, and expectations all at once. And truthfully, having a parent or guardian isn’t always easy either. There are disagreements, rules we don’t like, and moments when it feels like no adult truly understands us. But at the same time, they’re often the ones checking on us, supporting us, and pushing us to become better versions of ourselves, even when we don’t realize it or appreciate it in the moment.
Mother’s Day isn’t just about moms. It’s also about grandmothers, aunties, sisters, cousins, neighbors, any woman who has taken the time to care and step up in meaningful ways. Grandmothers are often the backbone of the family, sharing wisdom, giving unconditional love, and always making sure you’re okay (and fed). Aunties can be like a second mom or a big sister, someone you can talk to, trust, laugh with, and sometimes go to when you need advice or just a break from everything. These women help shape who we are, even if they don’t always get the recognition they deserve.
At the same time, not everyone’s situation is perfect. For some teens, Mother’s Day can feel complicated or emotional, especially if a mother figure isn’t present or if relationships are strained. But even then, the day can still be about recognizing any woman who has shown you care, guidance, or support. Appreciation doesn’t have to be expensive or over the top. A simple “thank you,” a handwritten note, a hug, or just spending time together can mean more than anything. Sometimes, the smallest gestures leave the biggest impact. At the end of the day, Mother’s Day is about recognition. It’s about honoring the women who guide, protect, and support us, even when we don’t say it enough. And maybe it’s also a reminder that we don’t have to wait one day out of the year to show love and appreciation.
As a 16-year-old, I can honestly say I appreciate and celebrate every woman who has poured into my life. Their influence, strength, and care don’t go unnoticed, and they deserve to be recognized every single day. — By Jabari
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